Originally Posted by
G35COUPE
Well, to each their own version of their understanding of their universe. This is welcomed. Secondly, let me say that i thoroughly enjoy your comments, albeit their questionable basis.
LMAO! Thrilling!!! Who made me look like a fool? In what scenario was I made to look like a fool? And if so, how did you come to this conclusion, given that our spirited conversation has been ephemeral, to say the least? What damage was being controlled? LOL! Who caught whom? What is the basis for these confounding assertions? One is raising many more questions than they are answering, which raises a red-flag about credibility of comments. Could malice be a reason for these spurious assertions?
This has been your position so far (you specifically said, "Editing existing posts with malicious intent is a violation of the terms of service. This included deletion to try and cover one's own incompetance."), and this has been the question you have indirectly tried to prove in great futility. Why? One is incapable of determining what is going on in the hearts and mind of others. We cannot assume the role of "thought" police.
Words are actions. You can't prove malice, without proving intent.
We are talking about us. Whether you beleive this or not, our discussions are a revelation of our inner souls and persons layed bare for both of us to examine in great detail.
Once again, it appears a convergence of ideas maybe taking hold here. I am proud of one's valiant efforts in this discussion.
What feelings are you talking about? I beleive we have been as objective and candid as possible in our hearty conversations. I was told many years ago that humans stop growing at age 25. Maybe I have stopped growing. I have no idea.
I never said anyone was hazing me. These are your assertions. I only said I have a suspicion that it may be in the process of occuring.
So, it all boils down to perception? I could see how that could be a reality.
Amen!!!!!!!!!!! And I wish the same for UCP from the bottom of my heart. I made no reference or attribution to UCP, whatsoever. I have no idea where you got that from.
Let one's perception be a product of objective variables, lest they arrive at wrong conclusions. There is absolutley nothing illogical with my comments when questions I have raised in the past in relation to my comments, have yet to be answered. And being baffled by views that are divergent, is absolutley normal, as it could potentially create an opportunity to initiate taking stock of one's entire being and beleif system.
Remember our discussion on one avoiding being a "thought" police?
I have no interest in bringing anyone around to see things my way. That would be considered communism. I am a firm beleiver in democracy. And to correct your previous assertions and beleifs, all organizations operate either in a centralized or decentralized fashion, which is akin to communism or democratic ideals. Of course, there are rare organizations that provide a middle-of-the road coordination system.
Dissent will usually not come with labels. Bullying will almost always come with labels at some level. I know, because I study it. Here are labels by you, that have been hurled at me, "The rest of your posts are 'Filler', mindless, useless trash that you appear to use to pad out your posts to make them seem intelligent and well thought out." Perhaps, if we had discussions where one is inclined to drop the labels in their assertions, then, maybe dissent would be most appropriate in describing that scenario. However, I have made no assertions of certitude that bullying is indeed occuring here.
Once again, we are victims and guests of our perceptions and beleifs. We are free to think what we want.
This is false as an assertion. "All organizations operate either in a centralized or decentralized fashion, which is akin to communism or democratic ideals. Of course, there are rare organizations that provide a middle-of-the road coordination system." You just haven't taken the time, after such an extended membership with UCP, to study the structure of the organization and how it functions, conceptually. Organizations DO NOT exist in an ether. They exist in a structure that CAN be centralized or decentralized, depending on their vision and mission.
I am glad one has finally come to a benign recognition of the differences between a behavior and an attitude. Which potentially troubles you more, my behavior or my attitude?? If you suggest behavior, you will have to show my use of specific terms to denigrate others, in equal measure as I can show some members, including yourself, who have attempted to use terms to denigrate others (like me). For example, the poster called "Whiteballz" a supporting member, said in reference to my earlier comment, "and you are not an adult".
And if you suggest attitude, then you will have to show how you measured and gathered information I maybe rummaging in my heart and mind. So, tell me, what am i thinking right now? LOL!
Speak for yourself. Our orientations are different. People can choose to fly 50 miles with a helicopter or they can choose to fly 50 miles with a single engined Cessna fixed wing aircraft or they can chose to drive 50 miles with a powerful v-8 engine. Does that mean that one of them is wrong and the other is correct?
Thanks for the acknowledgement. I consider this an act of being a gentleman. My aspirations are that you will continue to maintain the attribute of a gentleman even in the most testy of circumstance. Thats what true leadership is all about