I see where you are coming from but maybe I am missing something. If you reduce the weight, all else being equal, the contact patch would have be reduce a proportional amount but the load per unit area of tire would remain the same right?
So if that is true doesn't grip remain the same since it is dependent on load per unit area of tire (generally speaking)?
I think what I was referring to in my original post was 'tire load sensitivity' where the effective coefficient of friction increases with reduced tire load. But I don't know if that would still apply at very light loads or very light loads/unit area.